Expectations, unheard, unwritten, not agreed, lead to disappointment.
Frustration from despondency could result in an outpouring or inner turmoil.
Assumptions can conflict create or do secrets forge, limiting authenticity.
Living as a liar may rebellion incite or self-loathing and self-destruction result.
theINFP 
I guess the point is to somehow be at ease with these contrasts.
Indeed, acceptance/acknowledgement could help.
I realized at some point that since I always have an ideal vision, I do work to make things and myself better. But the down side is that to others it may seem that I am always unhappy or critical.
I’m sure you are loved for who you are, Eileen.
I love planting gold and deep purple pansies together. To me that captures the joy and sorrow that are always part of life, two sides of the same coin of caring.
Perfectly balanced.
Dear Eileen and Robert,
Likewise, I have also often juxtaposed yellow and purple to style some of my posts, pages and comments with contrasting colours and contours.
Contrast and paradox not contradiction.
Yes, your use of purple and yellow is indeed innovative, I like it.
Dear Robert,
Happy Sunday! It’s been wet and windy, has it not?
I have replied to you at https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2020/10/10/if-my-name-were-moon-tonight-with-clair-de-lune/#comment-13503 with a bespoke comment containing yellow, blue and purple colours, and hope that you will kindly grant SoundEagle your answers to the couple of questions there. Thank you in anticipation.
Thank you for pointing me in the right direction. I scan be a bit slow with technology.
I have even given you a big glowing name there.
I have left a reply, I hope it has been received.
There’s nothing. Your reply is nowhere to be found.
I received your comment just now. Thank you. Why did you address me as “Ros” in the comment?
If you don’t mind, I shall change it to SoundEagle.
I thought you signed one of your comments, Ros, my mistake please change to SoundEagle. I
How funny! Call me Ros and I shall call you Rosbert! 😉
It’s done. Back to an avian name.
By the wy, I left you another comment at https://theinfp.com/2020/10/24/sixth-year-anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-7887 regarding more information on Clivia.
Thank you 😎
Wow….lots to ponder. Loving the first line!
Thank you for commenting.
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